I want to be a good boy and have safe sex, but 9 out of 10 times that I do the dirty deed, the condom breaks anyways, so why bother? Any ideas on how to prevent this nightmare from reoccurring?
Seth A. NYC
That has happened to most of us. I think condoms make a woman dry down there; they seem to rob us of our female lube. First of all, make sure you have enough foreplay to get her moist, and once you are at it, have some K.Y Jelly at hand to make sure the situation stays wet enough to avoid rips but not so wet that the condom slides off. Like Frank Zappa said “Keep it greasy!”