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I'm getting divorced after 22 years of 'bliss'. My wife and I are like oil and water. I haven't changed since she met me. I’ve the same interests; the most important one is a need for a loving sexual bond with my mate. I'm very physical. She’s never been, though at first she put on a good act. She prefers intercourse more than anything else, and loathes oral. Very rarely in our years together has oral sex been something that she wanted; to give or receive either! All my other girlfriends before her, including my first wife who could cum at the drop of a hat orally and otherwise, loved the way I licked their pussies. My nickname is "Spock" because my ears had been pulled in ecstasy so many times. I recognize that there is a technique that most men really can’t master. This is what I’ve been told by dozens of women over the years.
From the many articles I've read on the subject, it seems that often times, women who are self-conscious about the way their box smells are typically the ones that hesitate to have their lovers go down on them for fear of grossing them out. I guess since taste is about 75% smell, they also figure that their pussy tastes bad as well. I LOVE the way pussy smells, tastes, looks, feels and even sounds!
That old joke 'once you get past the smell, you've got it licked' never made sense to me. I totally love inhaling the scent of a woman! As I said, it adds to the sensuality. I don't think it has a damn thing to do with cleanliness. In fact, the inside of a woman's pussy is typically cleaner than the average mouth, when it comes to bacteria.
Bottom line question: in your experience, how common is it for women to loathe their partner practicing cunnilingus on them, and why?
Bobby Brown (“watch me now, I'm goin' down.”)
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Licking pussy is like a lap dance for your taste buds? Lovely. But if your partner doesn't like it, you can't force her to spread 'em. Most women do enjoy it, the first few months, but may grow a bit bored of the same old thing; even if it's heavenly genital licking. I am well aware of the fact men couldn't imagine getting bored of head, but women can. If sex becomes routine, women tend to get a "headache" or a mysterious second period that month. I hope you aren't divorcing her just because of her lack of sexual appetite, as that same thing can happen with other, women as well. If your mind is set on divorce, try to avoid getting married again and/or living together with a woman if you thrive upon a sizzling sex life. I don't give a FUCK how hot you/they are, seeing someone ALL the time, sex will get boring and even spectacular oral becomes routine. Marriage and living together are so overrated and old fashioned. Sure, it's good for raising kids and trimming your taxes, but even that can be done successfully while living separately. It all depends what your priorities are; family, sex, free time, money, etc. It’s hard to have it all and as cliché as it sounds, absence still makes the heart (and genitals) grow fonder. Last but not least, some women simply don't enjoy having their twat licked out. Some prefer to give and feel guilty getting pleasure and some ladies are too nurturing and kind to tell their partner "I've got a spot that gets me hot, and you ain't been to it!"
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I am only 19 but I am sexually active even though I am a tad shy. I have noticed that the few men I have slept with all want to “69”. I go with the flow, but to be honest I don’t like it. Why are men so hooked on this? I find it embarrassing to have someone be face to face with my ass hole. What if they think it’s ugly? What are they THINKING when they are that close? Firm & Fruity Fiona
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Why are they hooked on it? Exactly the same reason you hate it. They love the close up view of your twat and chocolate star fish in their face. Don’t worry about them criticizing your crack, as I am sure they look upon it adoringly. I hate it for a different reason: it’s unpractical. How can one enjoy receiving great oral when they have to concentrate on giving great oral? What a stupid fucking concept. I am positive the 69 position was invented by some horny, unpractical, caveman. Another downside; there is always that chance your man was in a hurry the last time he wiped his ass. Sniff.
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I am recently divorced after a 25 year marriage.. During the entire 25 years, I (we) never used a condom. I now find myself 'suddenly single', and the women I've encountered insist on a condom. I completely understand the necessity of their use. However, I just can't seem to move past the awkwardness and loss of sensation with their use. In fact, I hate them! Any suggestions? Withering Willy
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No one likes them, not even us girls. Have the lucky lady suck on you while you unwrap the condom. Say "do us a favor darling and keep me in your mouth while I wrestle with this thing", make it fun and they will. Hopefully she will give you good head while you get it ready, then quickly slip it on and slip in her as fast as you can. It would be best to give her good oral, no, GREAT oral before the condom is even mentioned, to make sure she got her fun before you possibly loose the nerve. If you go soft while wearing the condom, try to make her cum with your mouth or hands and then wank off onto her breasts or face…It may take time to train him to get used to the ol' wet suit again I'm afraid. Find a girl to be monogamous with and perhaps you can ride bareback again.
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My son is 21 and he is dating a 38 year old woman. She looks great for her age; very youthful and she is fun, and I understand why my son loves her, but I can’t help but wish she would just disappear and let me boy enjoy his youth. Should I just ignore this potentially hazardous relationship or try to wake him out of this puppy love? Mrs. Robinson
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When a person is 21, they can and will do whatever the fuck they want. You can buy him a copy of the film Harold and Maude and hope he get’s your point, but as long as they are both happy why make waves? The more you mention it to him, the more you will drive him towards her. He has many years to experiment and fool around; she should be the worried one, not you nor your young ripe son. Rather than trying to fight the Cougar trend, try to love him unconditionally like a parent should. What will be, will be.
Feel Free to ask me any question, I always change the names around, so know one will know your identity, except me. I answer all questions personally. You can find my columns on line, just google "Ask Dr. Dot". It also appears in Penthouse Forum every month as "Calling Dr. Dot".
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My girlfriend and I broke up last Summer when she moved to Asia. But for the last year that we were living together we didn't have sex I started watching porn to satisfy myself. Now that I am dating again, I seem to have a harder time staying stiff when I am with a woman. I don't have a difficult time when I'm watching porn though. Obviously, I can get an erection. Am I addicted to porn, or have I just developed the beginnings of ED? What can I do to figure this out? I just don't know what's normal anymore. I never had this problem in my life. Softie Sal
A. "ED"? Wtf does that stand for? Eating disorder? Exiguous Dick? It could be your penis is rebelling. He is pissed the fuck off he lived with a pussy for a year and didn't have any access at all, only your hand was there for him. Now he is showing YOU who's boss. Take control again and retrain him. Your cock is spoiled by your over tentative hand. No one can fuck you like you and porn if fun but it can make men lazy. There is no need for bringing your hand out to dinner, giving it compliments or foreplay. Porn provides the scene and your hand provides the "pussy". Time to break up the monotony and prepare for real pussy. Cut back a bit on the porn and wank once a day instead of 4 times a day for example. It's hard for a normal girl to compete with a Double-Penetration-hungry porn star on her first date. Try to start all over again, getting excited over a date, her smell, glimpse of cleavage, possibility of a first kiss, the anticipation, and the foreplay when it finally comes. Kind of like putting a fat kid on a diet, even though it's parents own a Haagen Daz ice cream shop. It must be done.
Q. I am a randy young woman, with a slammin' sex life. What bothers me though is how often I have to put the breaks on spicy make out sessions when it comes to the penetration point. Most of the time, the men I make out with don't have condoms but still want to fuck. Naturally I say no and they either are upset that I don't have any on me or that I won't let them shag me without a condom. Why are men so willing to dive into an unknown pussy without protection? Is it because I look so innocent or are they just dumb? And is it our job as females to suddenly be the condom machine? Pissed off Patti
A. They may be so willing to dive in without protection because they’ve probably been lucky so far, not having experienced a STD that turned their cock purple with red spots or having knocked up a girl on a one night stand. These fearless, horny buggers who, thanks to their raging hard on, aren't thinking at all. I’d be lying if I said protected sex feels better than bareback but you have to protect yourself from Aids, STDs and pregnancy, unless you’re in a long-term monogamous relationship. A man expecting the lady to carry condoms is as arrogant as it is ignorant. We don't own a cock, so we shouldn't have to tote rubbers around; they don't own a pussy and shouldn't have to supply us with tampons. Next time you get busy with a man who hasn’t any protection, take a walk to the corner shop together and make him buy condoms. This will teach him that you are a safe, responsible, yet fun and eager. Great combo.
Q. I’m 18, I’ve never had a proper girlfriend before although there’s a girl in my life currently who I really want to date. I’m totally straight, there’s no question about that and I love being a man. The thing is that I like dressing up in women’s clothes. I don’t know what it is that makes me do it but I can't help it. What makes it worse is the fact that they’re my sister’s clothes. I don’t feel anything sexual towards her at ALL. I want to stop but whenever I try and resist the temptation, I fail. I always tell myself 'right you’re not going to dress up' then 5 minutes later I am admiring myself dressed up. Would any girl be completely scared off by this sort of thing if I tried to tell her about it?
Dressed up Dan
A. You may as well just embrace your fetish now and get it over with, rather than struggling with it for years, going to therapy which you don't need, blah blah blah. We ALL have our weird sides, and I mean everyone. Young girls may not understand this habit of yours, but older women will. Thing is, you shouldn't change for anyone. You like the feel and look of women's clothes on your body and who can blame you? Our clothes look and feel sexier than men's clothes. Perhaps this is your cue to take up a career in Fashion. Lots of straight men make ladies clothes and I know quite a few straight men; some rock stars even, which love to cross dress in private. It's not a a big deal, honest. There is no sense in hiding things from the girls you choose to date. Don't tell them until you are sure you can trust them and you can even make it fun like when you are both naked before/after sex, just get up and try her clothes on; it will surely make her giggle. Make her try your clothes on as well. Don't sit them down for a serious chat about your habit, just slowly weave it into things. I am sure they have strange habits they keep from you as well. Life would be boring as fuck if we were all just plain, boring and straight laced. Be proud that you're different.
Q. A lot of my exes, past lovers and current girlfriend wouldn't let me make them cum. Why is this? I get them right to it and they stop me. Do or did they want us to cum together maybe? Or with my most recent ex, she was very shy. Maybe she was shy about cumming in front of me? Honestly, their climax is more important to me than my own and I wanted to know what you have to say about it.
Climax Carl
A. It could be a control issue, afraid to lose control and hand it over to you. Maybe they can't let their hair down, have fun and give into pleasure. Sometimes, women never find out HOW to cum. It's obviously not as easy for girls to cum as it is for guys. Since everyone is different, the only way you will find out, is by asking each girl you get in the sack. Just come right out and ask them if it happens again. Say, ""Can you make yourself cum?” If she says "yes" then ask her to show you how she does it. Bed is no place to be shy or afraid to ask questions.
Q. Hoping your advice will save my love life. I have always been the giver in my relationship and now I am thinking of asking my woman to marry me. We have an outrageous sexy life and have been together for 2 years and we still make each other crazy in bed. I love her a lot but she has sometimes been unkind. She is demanding and no matter how much I give, it never seems to be enough. Her attitude does turn me on but I wonder if she will ever treat me a bit better, like if I ask for her hand in marriage. I would marry her but wonder if this will give away all my power? Every time I pull away from her she tries to pull me back. I feel like things have come to a head and its do or die. Should I pop the question? (I swear I treat her soooooo good.)
Whipped Woody
A. Everyone is "unkind" now and then. If you think marriage will change things, you need to get a grip. If you find yourself pulling away from her, then marrying her is a stupid idea. Marriage is not even necessary anymore. People do not need a contract to love one another. A big party to celebrate your love and commitment should satisfy everyone's need to wear tacky dresses and receive presents from friends and family, but why the contract? The very thing that people think will make them feel like they've "sealed the deal" is the same thing that leaves them craving for regular sex, which seldom occurs in a marriage, hence the fact that most marriages end in divorce anyways. If she is mean to you, grow some balls and ask her why. If things don't improve, move on and find a woman who loves a giver (there are plenty of them out there).
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I am a 23 year old female, and was wondering if you had any suggestions as to how to make "doggy style" feel better for me. For some reason, when my fiancé and I try this, it is uncomfortable EVERYTIME. Sometimes painful, sometimes just flat out UNCOMFORTABLE! I know He loves it, as he keeps asking me to do it, so we need to perfect this.
Any tips?! thanks!
Don’t-like-the-Doggy Daisy
A. I am guessing your man has a long schlong. You can try it standing, and cross your legs tight when he is in you, to be able to control how deep and hard he prods you but squeezing his cock with your pussy (crossed legs make the grip tighter). If you do it on the bed, tell him to go in you, and then carefully lie flat On your stomach, with him in you, and again, close your legs together tightly And cross your legs. He will love the tighter grip and you will love the fact He isn't playing pool with your ovaries anymore. If it STILL hurts, try to keep One hand on the base of his cock while he fucks you to control how deep he Goes. If none of that works, stop doing it doggy style. Get on top of him and squat on him so you can control the pressure. You may have a cyst or two on your ovaries, which is very common. You can either have them removed or start taking the pill, which pretty much makes them disappear.
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Q. I have been dating this really special guy (age 30) for 6 months. We took our time getting to know each other and have been having sex for the last two months. Last time we were shagging, I got on top and squatted on his cock and apparently slammed down on it the wrong way or too hard, or something and he stopped me and said his dick hurts. We couldn't continue, even though we tried, as he was in pain and his prick was swollen. He left and sent me a text message a few hours later and said he was in the emergency room as I had broken his dick! He stayed in there THREE days and the worst part of all of this is he told his parents, as they needed to bring him clothes and I haven't even MET them yet. I am horrified. How can I continue seeing this man and how should I behave if I meet the parents? SOS!
Vicious Vagina
A. Oddly enough, I have broken a cock before too. It DOES happen. Telling his parents means he is an open, honest guy who obviously has a good relationship to his folks, which is a good think (he could have lied and said he did it while wanking). The best way to handle this situation is with humor. If/when you meet them, don't apologize for fucking their son so hard you snapped his willy in half, just leave it and if THEY
mention it, make a little joke like "yes, we were "driving" recklessly that evening"
and let it slide. They are probably proud of their son for being open, honest and having
wild sex like they surely used to.
Q. I am a 31-year-old brother and my girlfriend, age 23 and I got engaged 3 months ago. Recently she got all dolled up and went out with the girls. They went out dancing and she came home around 3am in a giggly, sexy mood and I am pleased she had fun. We start making out and she says she needs to go to the bathroom. I could hear the shower going so I go in to surprise her. She was washing her pussy and a load of cum was sliding down her leg. I wiped it off and smelt it. It was 100% cum! I stormed out and slept over one of my homies houses. DEVASTATED DOES NOT EVEN BEGIN TO EXPLAIN HOW I FEEL. I demanded the truth and she admitted EVERYTHING; some guy bought her drinks, she sat in his lap and he felt up her legs and arse then he got his dick out under her skirt and she sat on it. Later they fucked again out the back of the club. Of course she used the “drunk" excuse. She has apologized 50 times already. I don't know what the fuck to do. Shittin’ Kittens
A. Although I am aware that being 100% physically true is almost impossible, she crossed the line by putting you in GREAT danger. Had you not walked in and snatched the cum wad from her thigh, you would have never known. She can’t be trusted. The worst part is she didn't use a condom. This cannot be tolerated. If she that ignorant and irresponsible that she can go fuck a stranger in a bar without a condom, why would you want to keep her around? If you stay with her your self-esteem, confidence and most importantly your life will be in constant state of fear and danger. Show the whore the door.
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My boyfriend and I have great sex but whenever he is about to ejaculate he withdraws and wanks over my tits or face or stomach. He very rarely comes inside me. I have never had an orgasm with him because he always withdraws and wanks over me. I am then left feeling frustrated. I have been with him 2 years but don’t know how to talk to him about this. He watches a lot of porn and I think that because most of the porn he watches this is what the blokes do, he thinks that is the norm. Frustrated Fiona
A. Men shoot their spunk over a woman for numerous reasons (1) In their subconscious they may think the girl won't get pregnant if they pull out (2) It's fun to watch themselves mark their territory (3) They are curious as to how exactly big that batch is. He should be grateful he has such a good sport as a partner as some girls would get offended when a man sprays his baby gravy all over them. I am guessing he never asks about you having an orgasm and if not, you should learn to speak your mind. The fact that he is doing something that annoys you is partly your fault because how the fuck is he supposed to know it bothers you if you don't speak up? I assume he isn't a mind reader. Just come right out and say, "Darling, would you stay with a girl who can't make you cum?” Then he will probably give you a dirty look and answer, "fuck no! why?" then you say, "well, I know it's my fault for not saying anything, but I never, ever cum with you, in fact I would prefer you cum IN me sometimes, not just on me, so lets try something different please". If you don't whip up the courage to say something, then you deserve to just be his loving cum rag.
Q. I’ve been dating this guy for 3 months, and things have been great, but are moving into a beyond the 'surface' stage of our relationship.I haven't had something like this in awhile and he was very romantic and generous with his word up until recently. He isn’t seeing someone else and he contacts me regularly but the sweetness has faded a little. He’s very stressed at work and the last time I saw him he looked tired and admitted that he takes on too much and then feels overwhelmed. I freaked a little when he said he has to find balance. I took it personally because when I had heard that before, it meant that they were disappearing,and that perhaps I had done something to change their mind. In my heart, I know he really cares about me, but I am afraid. He’s invited me to go with his family for dinner next week, but that urgency to see me has faded and he’s really putting himself first these past days.I understand that, but I still get fearful that my romantic guy won't come back. I apologized for the mini-freak out and explained to him my fears. He was all ears and philosophical about it. I just wish I could relax and not worry so much. Any thoughts? Fearful Freda
A. You need to chill. Men can smell insecurity, fear and doubt like a dog can smell another dogs ass miles away. It’s natural for things to calm after a few months. The only way to keep things really spicy is to only see each other once a week, but then you can never really get closer. You’re hooked on that romantic high; that addictive butterfly effect a fresh love has on everyone, but love never stays that intoxicating. Eventually romance turns into a familiarity; there is no way of avoiding it. We would all like our lover to be mad about us, to imagine they only think of us when they wank, but it's just bullshit; that only exists in romance flicks. You shouldn’t have freaked out. Less words and tantrums; more confidence and calm will prevent them from disappearing. Men need space, patience and above all, less drama. Realize that you are worth hanging around for and try to feel so happy in your own shell, that even if you were alone, you would be fine. Men can sense that and feel free. Just like being in a room alone with a cat, if you close the door, the cat wants OUT now. If you leave the door a bit open, he will want to sit on your lap and pine for your attention.
Went to a soccer match last night (it's now 8:25 am and I am still up). Liverpool vs Hertha (Berlin's home team). The score was 0-0 so everyone went home happy; erm, drunk. I didn't drink anything as they only served beer and coke. Never drank a beer in my life, not gonna start now. I took many pictures and even made a video, but they will have to wait a few days to make it on here as I am swamped, as usual.
I found out the karaoke stripper is Swedish (karaoke bar owner Ron emailed me and told me). No wonder. Those folks LOVE to be naked. ha. The sun has made a brief appearance, so maybe we will finally get a taste of summer here. Not whining, mind you, I like it like this. If it's too hot, the men get too horny and people get cranky, or crankier I should say.
So glad Karadzic was found. Hope they fry his ass in the electric chair. All those people (over 8,000) he had killed. UGH!! Nightmare!! Anyways, the construction workers are already outside my window, making noise, so I have to try to get some sleep now. Tonight was lots of fun, will spill guts asap.
Q. I can not sleep with another person. I don't mean sexually, I mean literally. I can not sleep next to another person (just my cat) This has offended many women. Can this be corrected? Lester the Loner
A. Funny you mention that, as I have the same problem. I can't even sleep in the same room as another person. You are not alone. In fact, I think it stems from being a light sleeper and/or fear of intimacy. Face it, when you sleep next to someone, it becomes a habit. It can make you dependent on that person when you equate them with sleep. For me it is more intimate than sex. It could also be just not wanting to hear another person scratching, tossing and tossing off, farting and snoring all through the night. There is nothing wrong with you. Just explain to them sleep is a very personal thing for you, and since your mind is so busy working on saving the world, it is hard for you to turn it off and any distraction at all will disrupt your badly needed rest. If you are shagging your partner properly, they shouldn't mind where, when or how you sleep, as they will be too tired to give a shit.
Q. I hate to use condoms, my cock goes limp when I put one on. I prefer to pull out right before I cum, by how can I convince my new girlfriend to waiver the condom rule? Raincoat dodger
A. It is not her fault if you can't stay hard enough for a condom, so it's ignorant and rude to try to make her screw you without one so you can get your rocks off. If she prefers safe sex, respect her for that. Now about that pull out myth…. Pre-cum, which is that clear liquid that seeps out of your dick during foreplay and intercourse has loads of sperm in it too. There is a high chance of some sperm left in the urethra mixing with the new precum Even before you cum which can get her pregnant. You are playing with fire if you screw without a condom on. An expensive, dangerous fire. Only if you are in a monogamous Relationship for a long time, where you both had time to be tested for nasty diseases, you trust each other, AND if she is taking birth control, should you have sex without one. This "pulling out" method is a good idea, but is about as dependable as a wet paper bag.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now and the sex was great, and now the past 2 months my boyfriend cums in about 3 min. He used to be able to last awhile. Why does he get off so fast? Ms. Loveme Longtime
A. He is getting lazy and selfish. Time to rock the boat. Make him lick you until you cum, and then he can enjoy his 3 minutes. Tell him you are getting bored with the quickies. Men like a girl who can speak up and says what she wants, especially in bed.
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Q. I am facing a dilemma I have no clue how to handle, and it’s getting quite frustrating. This is what's going on: I am completely in love with my girlfriend. Though we have only been together for a year, we spend every day together, and I would love to do so for the rest of my life. I am in no way unsure of my emotional feelings toward her, but I have another problem. I don't know why, but I have always been very interested in sodomy. I don't know why, it's not a conscious decision. She has given me head a few times, though she has only done it until I came on two separate occasions. One time she swallowed, and the other time she didn't. I know how other people's sex lives are often void of oral, so I don't see myself as incredibly unfortunate, but there's one thing that tips the scales, and that is that I frequently go down on her. It'll usually happen about 3-4 times a week, if not more, and it’s not very rare for twice in a day. Don't get me wrong, I love doing it, and I am very good at it, as she comes every time. But I feel like our sex life is very one sided. I've tried talking to her about it, but all I get are answers like, "I just don't feel like it" or "Do we have to do it all the time for our sex life to be good?" (I don't understand how that last one even applies though, because she's getting some practically every night.) I don't know how to stress this point well enough to her, without seeming like a sex hungry jerk. I also suffer from the fact that I was in a different relationship about two years ago, and that girl gave me head all the time, (almost nightly) and we did anal once. (That's when I got my thing for it.) I guess my question is what makes you enjoy giving head? I love giving her head, and I've asked her once, maybe twice, if she liked doing so to me, and all I get is an "I don't mind." I feel very unsatisfied, and seeing as I please her with my tongue on an almost nightly basis, I feel she should do the same. I do not want a "Doing it because I have to" blowing though. That sounds horrible. Hungry for Head
A. First of all, stop eating her out. When she asks why you stopped, tell her "I don't feel like it" or "do I have to in order for our sex life to be good?" She should get the fucking message loud and clear. She is selfish and spoiled by your eager mouth. I really think you want anal sex because it reminds you so much of your ex who satisfied your oral cravings, like a good girlfriend should. Look what happened to Bill Clinton when he wasn't getting head from Hilary. Stop giving and you will start receiving. It is clear you are more into her, then she is into you. She is obviously into sex, as she lets you lick her clean every night, so it just boils down to her being selfish and just not into your cock like she should be.
ps. Maybe you and "Loveme Longtime" should get together
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If a girl swallows for you does it mean something? I mean do women swallow on one nighters? What does it signify?
Delighted but scared A. It means you hit the Jack Pot. Some may scoff and label such a willing creature to be too promiscuous; down right slutty. Then again, it takes two to tango; two to be naughty enough to give it up on the first “date”. When a woman swallows you, it means she accepts you completely; she REALLY likes you. She’s a keeper
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